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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

SHH .. the unspoken rule....

Before i make this post topic i would like to know how you feel about it, what's your opinion .
Can a friend date, sleep with or keep as a friend a man that you were seeing and/or slept with?
Tell me what you think or your story and i will post my story soon..

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Hater's in your circle



Why does it seem that it's so hard for women to get along with one other? Constantly tearing each other down to make themselves feel validated . Unfortunatly this has been an issue amongs women for generations due to insecurties , jealousy & uncontinment with themselves. We already deal with so many issues being female , having kids, staying in shape , keeping our "MAN" happy ...etc... Isn't that hard enough?
So , Why the hell step on your fellow Girl?
I'm a woman in my early 30's still finding myself in this , " he said , she said" bullshit and it doesn't make sense.
Girlfriends have many rules that are unspoken but we know that they exsit , they're almost like the 10 commandments of women: such as , thou shall not sleep with your friends ex.
But not everyone follows the rules , instead make excuses .. well there not together anymore, but the were just "sleeping" together she never cared about him. Sad but true trying to justify such a Haynes act. It's  no wonder men say some of the things they say about us  , that we can be so evil to one another . Men can hurt us, hit us, cheat on us and we act like nothing happened or take them back but if our fellow girlfriend does something we are looking for every way to degrade , destroy , back stab and hurt her in every way possible  , pretty sad , but it's fact.

I chose to write this blog to hear opinion's of other women and men on this topic and will continue to write about similar topics just to see every ones  point of view. Let me know if you have a story to share or a comment ... 
Talk to you all soon..
xoxo