SUPERMOM...IS GOING SUPER CRAZY

 This picture says it all it is the perfect discription of how i feel today . I woke up with a horrid sinus infection and my 3 year old has chosen today to act up way more than usual.

its crazy people always expect me to be the super mommy , girlfriend , career woman 24/7 , 365 days a year and the minute that i get sick it seems like it's the end of the world . No one can do anything without me. To bad i say , can i not be sick lay on the couch and relax?  No i can't .

Try telling my 3 year old daughter that thinks she' s in the land of barbies and princesses that mommy doesn't quit feel like a princess but more like the wicked witch or toad.

I'm trying to hold my sanity together and hurrying to get better , because i would rather be back t my crazy 18 hour days than be sick , and feel sooo useless and helpless. Super  mommy is on a break , or trying to be we'll see how long that will last.

GET YOUR SEXY BACK

I was recently asked a question about some of the celebrity mom's and if i feel the pressure to keep up with them. Let's keep it real all of these women that are in the spot light that have a baby and look fabulous after a week have a team of people that work on them daily to keep them looking the way that they do , but that's no excuse to look at these women and think that you cant do it and let yourself go. I have 3 children , 3 dogs and i have a career and i still find the time to look good and keep the spice in my relationship.

There are so many things that you can do to look and feel good. If your wondering why sex in your relationship has fizzled don't say "well he doesn't touch me anymore".

It doesn't take much ladies . If your wearing a flanel pj to bed that has to STOP.

Follow these sexy tips:

1. Stop comparing yourself to Victoria Beckham , Angelina Joile and Hallie Berry , they have team of people to work on them everyday and if you had that to , you would look the way that they did everyday..

2. Find a nice satin pj that you can wear to bed and throw away those torn up t-shirts that you wear to bed , IT"S NOT SEXY.

3.Comb your hair , put on some lipgloss and a little perfume , even if your not going anywhere to make yourself feel good it only takes 5 mins out of your day.

4. Plan a sexy night for you and your partner 3 times a month do something different , give him a sexy lap dance , give him an invitation for a private dinner for two.... i think you get the idea .

5. Find what makes you feel good about you and being in your skin .

6. Explore new activities , pole dancing classes , belly dancing , tantric classes....

So really there are no excuses , its about putting in the effort. Once you feel sexy your partner won't be able to resist you.

POOR BODY IMAGE , WHY ...I CAN TELL YOU !

It's such a shame that women are still having so many body issues . I was watching a program on TV the other day and a mother wrote a letter about her daughter and the letter opened like this,
Dear Talk Show host,
My daughter is a fat pig please help!
Now there are so many problems with that , First of all this "fat pig" she's referring to is a 10 year old girl that she has been feeding junk to for the past 10years of her life. Can you imagine why some girls grow up into women that can't even look at themselves in the mirror. If your own mother can put you down in such a mean and degrading way what would stop other women.

What we fail to realize in this type of situation is, that girls like this become prisoners to food , date abusive men , become promiscuous . There are so many dangers or out comes and all are negative .
As mothers we have to educate our children on proper nutrition , positive body image at a young age so they don't crumble .

Yes , even as adult women we have our issues even if growing up we didn't have those types of issues , our bodies change , after children , getting older , hormonal changes ...etc   . Some women are to busy trying to keep up with the top models or celebrities they see on Tv which is soooo unrealistic , first of all if you were a top model you would be getting paid to get back into shape in a very short period of time or your contract would be over , if you were a celebrity you would have trainers and nutritionist's at your beck and call .

But let's keep it real the real day to day average woman doesn't get such luxuries , so that's why it's very important to look good for you but it all starts excepting the things that you can't change and loving the skin your in :)

And to the mothers out there even if you do have poor body issues don't say them or act them out in front of your children , because believe it or not a 6 year old doesn't know about counting calories , cellulite  unless she hears it from you . I don't think any mother wants to see there child pulling out the tape measure , or stop eating because your poor body image has spilt over to your child.

Take a moment to think! And Ladies stop putting your fellow lady friend down because of jealousy , be happy with what you've got , and if your not happy work on yourself until you are .

Always emphasise your best feature and feel good that your unique in your own way .

SHH .. the unspoken rule....

Before i make this post topic i would like to know how you feel about it, what's your opinion .

Can a friend date, sleep with or keep as a friend a man that you were seeing and/or slept with?

Tell me what you think or your story and i will post my story soon..

Hater's in your circle

Why does it seem that it's so hard for women to get along with one other? Constantly tearing each other down to make themselves feel validated . Unfortunatly this has been an issue amongs women for generations due to insecurties , jealousy & uncontinment with themselves. We already deal with so many issues being female , having kids, staying in shape , keeping our "MAN" happy ...etc... Isn't that hard enough?

So , Why the hell step on your fellow Girl?

I'm a woman in my early 30's still finding myself in this , " he said , she said" bullshit and it doesn't make sense.

Girlfriends have many rules that are unspoken but we know that they exsit , they're almost like the 10 commandments of women: such as , thou shall not sleep with your friends ex.

But not everyone follows the rules , instead make excuses .. well there not together anymore, but the were just "sleeping" together she never cared about him. Sad but true trying to justify such a Haynes act. It's  no wonder men say some of the things they say about us  , that we can be so evil to one another . Men can hurt us, hit us, cheat on us and we act like nothing happened or take them back but if our fellow girlfriend does something we are looking for every way to degrade , destroy , back stab and hurt her in every way possible  , pretty sad , but it's fact.

I chose to write this blog to hear opinion's of other women and men on this topic and will continue to write about similar topics just to see every ones  point of view. Let me know if you have a story to share or a comment ... 

Talk to you all soon..

xoxo